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Category: Personal Development

  • Learning a new language

    I studied Spanish in high school for four years and 10 years later, I’m embarrassed that I can’t form a comprehensible or grammatically correct sentence.

    I traveled throughout Europe last Christmas and was impressed by the number of bilinguals. Most people fluently spoke a combination of English, French and German. My second language, Vietnamese, however, is barely conversational.

    My Vietnamese stagnated 15 years ago. In elementary school, I was immersed in an after school program where I learned how to read, write, and speak Vietnamese. The majority of my friends spoke the language too, which was conducive to learning the language. But now, I rarely practice and have forgotten the majority of it.

    I was motivated to improve my Vietnamese after traveling to Vietnam last year. I was disheartened by the inability to communicate with my 9 year old nephew; my weak vocabulary limited the dialoge. My cousins taught me new words but by the end of the trip, I couldn’t remember any of them.

    Learning French

    In order to improve my Vietnamese, I started learning French. I figured that if I could learn a lanuage from stratch, I could use the same principles and apply it to learning Vietnamese.

    I searched online for the best methods to learn a new language. I purposely avoided any articles/books that promised short term success (e.g “Perfect French in 30 days”). After reading reviews on Amazon, I ordered Fluent Forever.

    With the books help, I built my curriculum. It cosists of:
    • Learn the international phonetic alphabet (IPA)
    • Train my ears with minimal pair trainers
    • Daily practice with Anki
    • Learn grammar

    Reflecting back at the last 3 months, I’m proud of my progress. I’ve ritualized learning French into a daily habit. I failed in the past due to inconsistency – it was never a habit.

    First French Translation

    Here’s my first translation from the book “French, A grammar based approach“.

    La salle à manger is petite. Il y a quatre chaises et une table dans la salle à manger. Sur la table est une nappe. Elle est vert. Il y a aussi des assiettes, des couteux, des cuillers et des fourchettes.

    Est-ce qu’il y a une tasse sur la table? Oui, il y ya trois tasses et un verre. Les tasses sont petites.

    Qu’est-ce qu’il y a dans les tasses? Il y ya du café dans les tasses. Qu’est-ce qu’il y a sont les verres? Il y ya du vin. Le café est noir et le lait est blanc. Il y ya aussi de la viande sur une plat, et il y ya légumes sur une plat.

    Qu’est qu’il y ya des fleures? Oui, il y ya des fleures dans un vase. Comment est le vasse? Il est joli; il est vert et brun. De quelle couleur sont les fleures? Il y ya rouge et blanc.

    Change in mindset

    “You will never change your life until you change something you do daily. The secret of your success is found in your daily routine.”

    —John Maxwell

    I’ve reframed my expectations. Instead of expecting fluency – both Vietnamese and French – in a short period, I’m building up my vocabulary and grammar; I’m immersing myself with people, books, and videos.

    I look forward to learning more about the people, new and existing, especially my nephew.

  • Putting your mentor on a pedestal

    Presenting at DevOps London ExchangeLast night, I presented (deckslide here) on AWS Lambda at DevOps London Exchange. I really enjoy public speaking, but it wasn’t always that way.

    In fact, I used to hate it – feared it.

    I vividly remember an embarassing instance in high school Spanish. My classmate and I had to do a presentation. I got up, and stood in front of the class for 20 minutes.

    That’s it. I just stood there. I didn’t say a SINGLE word the entire time.

    Fast forward to college. By this time, I really needed help with public speaking. My uncle suggested joining Toastmasters.

    I visited a few clubs and I wasn’t very impressed. But then, I discovered Sherman Oaks Toastmasters.

    I met Peter Bunce. He was very passionate about Toastmasters. He was very discplined. For 20 years, he rarely (if ever) missed the weekly meetings. His entire life was devoted developing the Toastmasters club.

    We used to get coffee and dinner. He assigned himself as my mentor. Honestly, I was hoping for someone else. He was tooeccentric. He didn’t encapsulate all the characteristics of my ideal rolemodel.

    Setting the right expectations

    I’ve always had unreal expectations from those who I looked up to. Peter was no exception. Him being a great speaker wasn’t enough for me. I had unrealistic expectations of what one mentor can offer – let alone any person.

    “If you should end up with a teacher who doesn’t seem right for you, first look inside.”

    —George Leonard

    A note to my mentor

    I sent Peter a message on Facebook this morning. But he’ll never read it.

    Peter Bunce passed away a few weeks ago. I wish that I had reached out to him sooner.

    If there’s someone who mentored you, be it informally or formally, or touched your life in some way, don’t wait to tell them that they moved you. Take a moment to reach out to them, to say thank you.